1.
Laugh when you feel like crying, it reliefs the
soul – hmmmm! It sounds so impossible but very real and true if practiced,
2.
Keep quiet when you feel like blaming or
condemning self or others. It can cause a depression or stir a fight – when you
are confused and do not know what to say, do not blame yourself or condemn
others, be at ease and use your head not your feelings.
3.
If you are angry, count 10 before a word, if you
are very angry, count 100 and if you are madly angry, please count 1000 before
you say a word – hey, any word you say be may used against you tomorrow. When
angry, though, it may be difficult, just try to control your emotions or else
you will destroy what you cannot build. Is the reason for high blood pressure(high
tempo of emotions- fire- 4 -fire)
4.
Do not fail to acknowledge any goodness or
kindness done to you and refuse to reflect on the wrong deeds – if you want to
live long and be happy refuse to dwell on the wrongs done to you, but always
celebrate little love and cares shown to you.
5.
Refuse to discriminate against anyone, but treat
all in fairness and truthfulness – all men are the same, never you be little
someone, he or she may be the only help you need tomorrow. Treat all with
fairness.
6.
Never feel too big to say sorry for a wrong deed
committed especially when most needed to silent a fight – like holy book, be at
peace with all men, try as much as possible to eat humble pie when you have
done a wrong thing by saying sorry. Do not imprison yourself by holding
grudges.
7.
Admit it when you are wrong, do not feel you are
better than others – one of the best ways to be happy and healthy is to take
responsibility of wrong deals and make necessary corrections or adjustments.
8.
Allow others to express their views even if you
do not agree with them; never force your opinion on them –It is often noticed
in argument that some want to always have their say. Shouting and forcing
others to accept their views.
9.
Avoid the company of gossip; they are always at
the back- the gossipers are always called backbiters and for them to exhibit
their talent you will see them at the rear seats.
Run from them to earn you some credits.
10.
Do unto others as you want them to do unto you-
this is one of the golden rules, what you know and very sure cannot tolerate do
attempt doing it to others.
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